That Boy

It's been a while; life has so many distractions: school, boys, work etc. I never really thought my life was complicated but looking back on this past semester I have to admit it is. I feel boys have it much easier because they are capable of going with the flow and girls aren't. We don't know how to just enjoy where life takes us, we try to plan out our every move. And we are so easily affected. For example, one break up can destroy our grades, our jobs, essentially our lives. And the negative effect of it is we then become obsessed with "winning" the break up. But honestly, that boy shouldn't have such a strong hold over us. We should be happy with who we are; someone told me lately that before you can love someone else you need to first love yourself and you need to be happy by yourself in order to be happy with others. So for all of those girls out there who have had that boy out there who basically ruined your grades, friendships, job, you can't let them. The same for those guys who have had that girl who basically devastated your life (although I feel this is a rare actuality) You have to be happy with yourself. So don't let that boy/girl take over your thoughts and life; just accept that you are better off. Because who wants to be with someone that doesn't want you back?