Underground Drinking

I brushed upon girls acting sloppily in my last post, but I can't help discussing it further but this time directed at males.  A great personal experience of mine was recently where I was locked in the basement with a guy by his friends (classy). Then the guy, lets call him *Zac, threw himself at me. I get it. When you are tipsy and single you want to hookup. But I was not that buzzed and I hadn't been leading him on. So we made out for I'd say 15 minutes and then I told him directly that I wasn't looking to have sex with him. What a rapid change of mood. And that's when we found out we were locked in the basement. Listen guys, when you're looking for just a one night deal you need to find the right girl. When you go after a girl who isn't going after you and get shut down, never texting her or talking to her again except about a potential booty call is not the way to go. Another great experience is when guys drunk text me for an ego boost. I have had this happen so many times and it seriously is a turn off. Girls want guys to be confident, then once we are closer we don't mind you sharing your flaws that way we know you are human. But after only 2 weeks that is way too soon. Lastly, I witnessed at my New Years some serious sloppy guy drama. My girl *Jackie and I were out and she was obviously interested in another guy, *Brent. But *TJ was following her like a puppy dog, even after she blatantly made out with Brent. He then confronted me about the situation and when I told him Jackie was seriously into Brent he had a temper tantrum. I guess where I was intending to go with this post is, boys MAKE us WANT to be with/near/hook up with you. I do not mean be an a**hole because while we may like the chase at first we will eventually grow sick of you. Instead, just be laid back. Nobody likes a boy actively trying to just get into bed with them.